Had another busy days

This mornin woke up early. There were only my mum n dad in the kitchen preparing breakfast. Anyone else??stil zzZZzz. Owh, it is getting crowded here. 'Positive crowded' i mean. My cousins are here now.Fetched them at the airport yesterday.

Yeah, its really getting busy n sooo many works to be done. Yep. When tellin about my part of job, I'd rather be a driver ! not to say that i'm lazy..or i'm not good in other works, but ..yeah sometimes things arent goin well when i incharge. you know, i need times to complete task. not in a hurry..not in a rushing mood. know what i mean :0?

My mum is the busiest person rite now. She will shouting and ask everybody to do their part. My dad? He likes cooking. hohoho. like he is replacing my mum daily routine. sounds good rite?

okey, i need to go. Need to help my sis ...or bride to be. owh, will have another busy day today!

Makin busyy

Ahad ni kenduri kahwin adik saya. Saya dan keluarga tentunya makin sebok. Dalampada busy buat persiapan, terpaksa juga ke sekolah. Ada lagi kerja yang perlu dibereskan. Jangan sangka jadi guru mudah! Tapi, saya tidak rasa ke sekolah pagi tadi merupakan satu paksaan. Tidak lansung.  Saya lega bila kerja-kerja saya sempat siap hanya dalam masa 2 hari. Oh ya! semalam pun saya ke sekolah. Abah bising juga..." Kerja kat rumah banyak ni, nak ke sekolah juga?" Saya senyum. Saya tau dia amat faham situasi saya. Kalau mak mungkin tidak faham..tapi, dia tak pernah mengeluh kalau saya masih bekerja dalam waktu yang tak sepatutnya. Seperti juga suami.  

Pulang kerja terus ke dapur. Abah pamer kebolehan masak mi udang hari ni. Saya membantu apa yang patut. Sedap. Tapi saya sudah tidak ingat resepinya. Lepas makan sempat rehat sebentar dan terus mengemas bilik. Bilik saya bersepah! Banyak sawang, susun atur semua benda tidak sekemas dulu, baju-baju juga tidak kemas susunnya. Saya mengemas sampai ke pukul 8 mlm. Penat!

Malam selepas makan ikut adik menempah kek hantaran.  Itupun selepas menolongnnya pasang langsir baru. Penat lagi!Tapi saya ikhlas. Saya tau bagaimana rasa saat2 menghadapi majlis besar sebegini. Saya juga pernah lalui.

Oleh sebab busy sangat hari ni, tidak sempat menelefon sayang saya di sana..

:My friend:

One of my best friend called. She told me that she was enggaged last week and proceed for the wedding ceremony next month.. Pretty shocked as she did told us that she'll only be married next year. She did sound happy. I'm also happy for her. Welcome to the club..da daa!

She explained much bout what she has been through recently. With all the forms that she's goin to fill n submit.Argument and frustrated.. hmm..hair wyre!come onnn gurl,,No pain, and no gain :)

No matther it is, I'm really happy for her. I know, this the time she is always dreaming for.  

should husband and wife need own privacy?

What do you think of that??

"Seeing signs of a cheating spouse often mean secrets. Secrets are work! There is not much written about the impact of a secret in a relationship, but believe me, in over two decades of working with strained relationships day in and day out, keeping a secret has a powerful impact.

It is the proverbial elephant sitting in the room that no one dare talk about. People take extraordinary measures to tip toe around it, but it IS there. Emotionally, you can’t miss it.

Secrets are a drain. If the secret persists, its impact is felt in subtle but insidious ways. People become physically ill, sometimes seriously so. People become depressed. People start doing crazy things."

(http://marriage.articlesarchive.net)

Is that really true huh?

Ini bukan untuk kami!

Saya dan suami dah lama mengidam sesuatu,
belum ada rezeki kami untuk memilikinya,
hanya dapat lihat dari jauh,
tapi ini yang dikatakan kebetulan,
sempenan persaraan ayahanda, seseorang menghadiahi sesuatu...
jadi,
dapat juga setidak-tidaknya kami menumpang,
walaupun ini bukan utk kami,
akhirnya dapat juga merasa!

:: Wedding ~ Nanie and Firzami ::

  

I went to my friends wedding yesterday. Reached at Beserah at about 1.15 p.m. I've been there before. When I was 16. But I still need to look at the map given to reach there!hmm..its easy to find actually ;P

When we reached, the bride and groom were busy smiling.. as the photographer was taking their best shots. But I know ,they noticed me there. Met other friends too. Lina J, Kak Su, Syikin n husband,Ros and husband and Yan. We are happy seeing each other. Its been a long time since we all sit together and catch up latest gossips!

For both of 'king and queen' of the day, hope they'll stay in the beautiful path of life. Being together, in happiness or sorrow...and will love each other, not until end of the life time, but more than that..As I pray for my  own  journey!

::Our Journey To ~ Besut::

Semalam kami ke Besut menghadiri majlis perkahwinan Pakku, kawan suami. Kami bertolak dari Kuantan lebih kurang pukul 8.00 pg. Saya tidak pernah ke sana. Suami juga. Jadi kami perlu bertolak awal.

Ada 2 pilihan laluan utk sampai ke Besut.Jabor atau laluan biasa, Kemaman. Kami pilih Jabor sebab ramai yang kata boleh jimat hingga 2 Jam! Lagi-lagi kami memang tak pernanh memandu ke sana, mungkin laluan ini betul-betul boleh jimatkan masa.

Jalan Jabor tidaklah berapa elok. Ada kerja-kerja pembaikan sedang dijalankan. Jalannya pun sempit. Mungkin kerja-kerja itu utk melebarkan jalan. Mungkinlah. Kenderaan lain tidak berapa banyak. Satu, dua..dan kadang-kadang tidak ada lansung. Mungkin awal pagi. Cuti pulak tu! Memang seronok memandu. Tapi bagi yang suka pemandangan yang lebih indah, tak sesuai lalu jalan Jabor ni. Kiri-kanan hanya pokok kelapa sawit. 
Ada juga lori-lori yang beratur. Nak tak nak terpaksa juga beratur sekali!  
Berhati-hati sudah tentu satu keutamaan.

      


 
 

Sampai di Terengganu lebih kurang pukul 11 a.m. Jauh dan rasa penat. Mujur keluar dari persimpangan Dungun, pemandangan yang tadinya penuh dengan kelapa sawit..diganti dengan pokok-pokok kelapa. Yep, ada pantai! Cantik.. Mujur juga ada byk papan tanda. Jadi, tidaklah sesukar yang difikirkan. Hujan pula turun. Ingat pesan mak abah supaya memandu dgn hati-hati. Jadi kami di kelajuan biasa. Cuma harapan, biarlah sampai sedang-sedang molek di rumah pengantin.

  

   
 

Kami sampai di rumah pengantin lebih kurang 12.30 p.m. Pengantin tengah bersanding..Alhamdulillah..

Lebih kurang pukul 2.00 pm kami bertolak balik. Singgah solat Zuhur di masjid dan teruskan perjalanan.
Kali ni kami cuba jalan Kemaman. Memang banyak beza. 
Yang menariknya, kami dapat lihat juga keunikan 
pantai di sini. (walaupun tak sempat turun..dek kerana hujan lebat!) 
Sempat juga kami singgah di gerai kraftangan tempatan. Cantik..

       


 

Sampai di Kemaman ada request utk beli keropok losong dan satar. Keropok lekor kami dah beli awal-awal lagi..tapi berpusing jugak utk cari satar. Maklumla, waktu tu dah pukul 7.00 mlm..mujur ada lagi!

Alhamdulillah, sampai di Kuantan lebih kurang pukul 8.30 malam. Waktu tu masing-masing baru nak makan malam. Memang langkah kanan!!

Memang perjalanan yang jauuhhh dan memenatkan! Tapi saya betul-betul gembira..

in respond to 'kucar kacir'

i know that my decision to take a leave last 10 Nov wasn't a good idea. maybe i shouldn't go there. I brought problems, I made my sayang not comfortable n 'kucar kacir', I did everything that i was not suppose to do.

First,by accepting someone invitation for having lunch ..somewhere. I dont know why but I did. We've sumthing else to do that day. OOhhh come on..act we need a break. We need to go on with our own schedule,rite? Me myself should be blamed!Sorry for that.

Secondly, it was raining cats and dogs. If it wasnt, the problems shouldn't occured. I can drive my self there. No, no..I shouldn't blame the rain. Ohh dear purple, let them do their job!Mother nature!

Thirdly,,,many people involved in the party that day..I shouldnt bring him along. Maybe he felt uncomfortable. in addition,it was a bit rushing, on Friday, attending 'makan-makan' when u need to b ready for solat Jumaat. hmm....When everything seems went smoothly, i spoiled the moment by letting him waiting for me in the car for 30 minutes or,,longer than that! Sorry again :(

forth, by not remembering the direction. If i had focus enough, things werent go like hair wyre.I'm pretty sure i can find the hotel by myself. But someone wasn't that sure to let me drive on my own. So ..I need a guider! Hellooo, The guider was my own hubby..yep yep He rode motorcycle in front of me..and show me the way.

And next, by loosing my mind, turning into the wrong direction while driving , with a guider in front of me..ohhww..That was bad. My hubby went straight and me, turned left ..I know my dear hubby did all the things he need to control he anger that time..sorry again. Can u imagine that? That was a busy traffic, cars, lorry..and I had no idea why i dare to do that..hohohohohooo.

I dont know what to say,
Mayb its true,
I always bring problems..

banyaknya kerja

Minggu ni paling banyak kerja. Saya kena bereskan semua sebelum cuti sekolah. Exam baru lepas, jadi saya perlu semak 12 bundle kertas jawapan. phew, saya habiskan menanda semalam. Lenguh juga tangan dibuatnya. Juga terpaksa tambah 2 batang pen merah.
 5 batang pen merah kesemuanya! 

Tadi di sekolah saya tidak punya banyak kerja. Pagi ada karnival bola sepak. Perhatian murid lelaki sudah tentu teralih ke padang. Murid perempuan? Mereka senang bermain monoply, catur dan.. ada yang curi-curi bermain pondok-pondok! Rasa kelakar. Saya cuba perhatikan gelagat mereka. Teringat masa sekolah rendah. 
Saya juga pernah rasanya bermain 
pondok-pondok dalam kelas. Masa darjah 3. .Hm..betul!

Selesai main monopoly, saya lihat mereka terdiam. Masing-masing kekok utk mengira hasil yang mereka peroleh. Ada juga yang cuba utk meminjam kalkulator dari saya. Saya senyum. Bagus juga permainan ni. Yang tidak reti mengira pun  boleh jadi pandai. Ada yang mengira sampai ke papan hitam. Ada juga yang tercongak-congak. Geli hati melihat, saya tawarkan diri utk membantu. 
OOwh, dah lama rupanya saya tak main monopoly. Seronok juga ye!

Esok Deepavali. Lusa saya ambil cuti rehat. Bukan 'saja-saja'!. Ada urusan perlu dibereskan. Juga utk bersama-sama dia :)

minta maaf

Saya dah lama tidak berkesempatan utk menulis,
hari ini, saya rasa saya ade byk masa utk coret sesuatu,
tapi...............
masih ada halangan,
kawan saya sms sebentar tadi,
nak datang ke rumah merasa masakn saya,
jadi saya 'terpaksa' berhenti menulis,
jumpa lagi nanti :)

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